10 Three Questions





Three Questions

Here are three questions. Fame or self, which is the most important? Self or wealth, which is most precious? Gain or Loss, what would cause you the most pain?
Here are some little cafeteria moments I am sure you are familiar with. The person who sits near you in the cafe as you try to enjoy a coffee, she phones one person after another for the duration. A young couple enter the cafeteria together holding hands, they find a seat and are sitting texting on their phones. I wonder if they will have a bride and groom on top of their cake with the couple texting their friends, “I have just got married can you believe it?” Three young children are sitting with their Gran who was in a wheelchair. I imagined them asking her, “Gran what was it like before phones?” “Well it did not matter where we were, in the park or on a bus, or going to school, we talked to each other about our plans. We put time and energy into our friendships. We let our minds wander and our imaginations were set free. The gran looked down all three youngsters were now sitting on the floor each playing a different game on a phone.
Another couple finds a seat. The female is sitting engrossed in her phone the man seems bored out of his mind. What might he say to her, “Do you mind if I strap your phone to my forehead so that I can imagine you are looking at me as you talk to your friends?”Friends or cell phone what loss would cause the biggest pain.? Now back to those three questions. What would your answer be to those?

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